Thursday, April 20, 2017

Think Again By Jared Mellinger

Evaluating yourself—being mindful of who you are and what you are doing—is necessary and can lead to positive change. But what about the dark side of introspection? Do you ever feel weighed down and exhausted by your own self-analysis? Perhaps you made a mistake, said a careless word, or even messed up big time. Your self-examination spirals into a full-blown cross-examination. You keep revisiting what happened. Your mind circles around the event, fruitlessly trying to somehow make the outcome different so you don’t feel the embarrassment, shame, and regret. The modern self-esteem movement has left us empty and self-focused. We exhaust our healthy introspection and pervert it into constant self-evaluation, wrong views of ourselves, self-accusation, and false guilt. Introspection was never meant to bear such weight. Think Again offers real relief from the burden of introspection that so many of us carry each day. Pastor Jared Mellinger, who tends to overdose on self-analysis himself, shows us how the hope of the gospel can rescue us from the bad fruit of unsound introspection. Mellinger’s short, story-filled chapters help readers identify and turn away from unhealthy introspection. There is an outward-focused God who delights to rescue an inward-focused people and lead them into a better way to live. When we truly understand it, we’ll see that the gospel actually sets us free from thinking about ourselves too much.We can seek after and pray for the peace and joy—the sanity—that comes from thinking about ourselves less often. Think Again includes practical instructions for self-examination, fighting false guilt, breaking free from hyper-introspection, and more. Ultimately, Think Again demonstrates that the solution to thinking too much about ourselves is to look to Christ, and it gives readers the tools to begin to turn from the mirror.

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Jared Mellinger is the senior pastor at Covenant Fellowship Church in Glen Mills, PA, where he lives in with his wife Meghan and their six children.

This book is what a call a small group book. It would be a great study guide for small groups.
It has questions in each chapter that can be discussed by each member of the small group and you will find it easy to understand.
It has the potential to help those that are harboring guilt. It was written as a help guide.
I hope that it is seen as a helpful book for those who are burdened by guilt to see that the Bible is there to help you see your self as a person God made you to be and you can always better yourself.
I gave this book 4 stars. I recommend it read and study with a friend or small group.
I received  this book from the publisher for review. A favorable was not required and all views expressed are my own.


  1. Maybe I will check the library, see what I think of this one.

  2. Sounds great. I have a study group I'm going to share this with.

  3. Maybe one we all need to read. Thanks Mary

    1. Ms. Jean you are the WINNER! I will get your book right to you!

  4. Nice review! I'm gonna check this out for my church!

  5. Sounds very interesting, Thanks

  6. Well, this book sounds like it was written about me! I am forever sticking my foot in my mouth by saying things that I feel guilty about later! But I don't think it would benefit me any and I will pass on this one. Thanks for the review Mary!